I have severe social and general anxiety disorders. Please bear with me if I start sounding really depressed or stop making sense... I am also an aromantic asexual (or aro ace for short). My ask is always open whether you follow me or not (you can be anonymous too if you want)
My main (fandom based) blog is hinata42691. So if you get a follow from there it's still me, I just can't follow people from rinsadreamer...
really tho I would love to have more nonromantic soulmates
soulmate best friends who met as children and don’t remember life apart
soulmate siblings whose parents always worry if there’s something unhealthy about their relationship
mentor-student soulmates who never stop learning from each other
soulmates whose relationships are ignored by society and just that much more intimate for it
it really pisses me off how easy it is to get sad and then how long and hard it is to get happy again like what the fuck man thats not fair
Fun little trick I learned in therapy: validation. When someone is upset, don’t try to fix the problem, point out the cause, or tell them it could be worse. Just validate their emotions. Be like, ‘shit yeah man, that sucks. I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’m here for you.’ That’s literally all you have to do to make them feel better. Thank you and goodnight.
i wish i was skinny enough to wear leather jackets and short jean shorts and short skirts with ripped leggings and boots and look cute and then come home and drink hot chocolate while wearing an oversized sweater and cute fuzzy socks without feeling like fucking shrek okay
Hi friends this is a little reminder to charge your phone, take your meds, drink enough water, get enough sleep, and listen to lots of music!! Your well-being and happiness is of utmost importance and I hope you take time to take care of yourself.
Ok lyssie I agree Carlos is totes demiromantic but definitely more aro than romantic on the spectrum
Mostly he likes doing platonic stuff with Cecil with occasional romantic stuff
That’s how I headcanon it
Yes that’s my headcanon too. And I think Cecil is definitely the only person he’s ever felt romantic towards. And I definitely feel like there’s a whole lot of platonic feelings towards Cecil as well.
do you ever just get
that’s my friend
If you struggle with self-care and see this, stop what you’re doing
- Have you eaten in the last 4ish hours?
- Have you had something to drink today?
- Can you have something, even if just milk or water or cup’o’noodles or toast with something yummy on it, if you haven’t, please?
- If you have any injuries, can you please take care of them for me
- Also please take any meds if you should and haven’t, yet?
Whatever you have or haven’t done today just know you’re super strong and I am so proud of you
Okay you can go back to blogging now~ <3
parenting tip: talk to your kids about mental illness. tell them they might have a hard time. tell them they can ask for therapy and medication. tell them they aren’t alone. tell them if your family has a history of mental illnesses and which ones. just fucking talk to your kids and be there for them.
It makes me angry when some people assume that aromantic people can’t feel love or somehow have less love or don’t feel as much love as other people. Romantic love is nice if you feel it or like it, but it’s not the only type of love that matters. Not feeling romantic love does not make you a cold heartless monster. It just means you feel different types of love instead, different types of love that are neither superior nor inferior to romantic love. If you feel romantic attraction, great, if not, also great. Both are valid and completely fine ways to be.
It’s funny how aromantic people tend to understand platonic and romantic love better than romantic people.